Meet Rossa

Finding purpose in pain, a survivor of spiritual abuse and divorce, birthed into destiny through what was meant to destroy me, I finally began to find myself. In the middle of tears, depths of despair and hitting rock bottom, I found my true identity and purpose.

 

It seems like a contradiction, but that was my journey. When I 'had it together', I was empty, living by being manipulated, controlled and incomplete. I was living a lie,  the life that others expected and what the community I had planted myself thought was admirable. I could not breathe. Knowing that there was more to myself, but not being able to articulate what that was, what it looked like or how I was going to get there. Feeling debilitated by past bad decisions and experiences which affected my self perception and belief systems, I couldn't see the wood for the trees. - It also gave others power to use these things against me and to capitalise on my insecurities and trauma. 

 

I remember the words I used to describe my situation to my coach like it was yesterday, " I feel like I am trapped in a box and I am trying to come out, but there are people and thoughts that seem to push me back in the box as soon as I want to come out". You might relate to that feeling?

 

"I am a butterfly still in the ugly cocoon phase, but I know I need patience so I can mature into the most beautiful version of myself and fly".  That journey was how I was birthed into wholeness and purpose, it became my desire to help others find their power, their beauty despite what they had been through. To give them hope and be an example of how the things that they felt had come to destroy them are the birthing pains of destiny, but that journey is not easy to walk alone and so many give up without actualising what God meant to fulfil through them
 

I needed a helping hand to put the pieces of life's puzzle together and to guide me through the storm and that is what I am now doing for others. Helping them to shed shame, rejection, fear, lack of confidence and reshaping their self and world view so that their adversities to not define them, but rather these become stepping stones pruning them and catapulting them to the pinnacle of their lives, with clarity of their identity, purpose and power to become legacy builders in their own right.